April is World Autism Month, a time dedicated to fostering understanding, acceptance, and support for individuals on the Autism Spectrum. While awareness is essential, true progress comes from educating communities, providing access to proper assessments, and offering resources that help neurodiverse individuals thrive.
At BestLife Counseling Services, we are committed to supporting children, teens, and families through the journey of an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) diagnosis and beyond. Our Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule (ADOS) services, along with family and individual therapy, provide a structured, compassionate approach to assessment and long-term support.
What is Neurodiversity?
Neurodiversity recognizes that brain function and behavior naturally vary from person to person. Individuals on the Autism Spectrum, those with ADHD, and other cognitive differences process the world in unique ways. Rather than viewing these differences as deficits, neurodiversity emphasizes strengths, capabilities, and the need for tailored support systems.
However, navigating life as a neurodiverse individual—or as a parent raising a child with ASD—can come with unique challenges. Early diagnosis and intervention can help create a clearer path for support, education, and long-term success.
How a Neurodiverse Mind May Process Differently
Neurodiversity means that individuals on the Autism Spectrum often experience and interpret the world in unique ways. While no two people with ASD are the same, some common differences in processing include:
Sensory Sensitivities – Everyday sounds, lights, and textures that seem minor to neurotypical individuals can feel overwhelming or even painful to someone with ASD. Bright fluorescent lights, loud environments, or certain fabric textures may cause discomfort or distress.
Literal Thinking – Many neurodiverse individuals interpret language literally, which can lead to confusion with sarcasm, idioms, or vague instructions. Saying “it’s raining cats and dogs” may be taken at face value rather than as a metaphor for heavy rain.
Difficulty with Eye Contact – While neurotypical social norms encourage direct eye contact, many individuals on the spectrum find it uncomfortable, distracting, or even unnecessary for communication. This doesn’t mean they aren’t listening—it simply means they process interactions differently.
Special Interests & Deep Focus – Some individuals with ASD hyper-focus on specific topics, such as dinosaurs, space, or coding. These interests can become sources of joy, learning, and even career paths.
Social Interaction Differences – Reading nonverbal cues, facial expressions, and tone of voice can be challenging, leading to misunderstandings in conversations or difficulty navigating group dynamics. Some neurodiverse individuals may prefer direct, structured communication over casual small talk.
Routine-Oriented Thinking – Predictability and structure help reduce anxiety and create a sense of control. Sudden changes in plans or disruptions to routines can be stressful, whereas clear expectations and advanced notice can make transitions easier.
These differences aren’t deficits—they are simply variations in how the brain processes the world. Recognizing and accommodating these unique perspectives can help create a more inclusive and understanding environment for neurodiverse individuals.
ADOS: Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule
One of the most effective tools in Autism diagnosis is the Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule (ADOS), a standardized assessment used to evaluate communication, social interaction, and behaviors associated with ASD.
At BestLife, we offer ADOS assessments to help families gain clarity, access resources, and determine the best course of action for treatment and support. This tool is beneficial for individuals of all ages, whether you’re seeking an early childhood diagnosis or exploring an ASD assessment in adolescence or adulthood.
Meet Danielle Smith: BestLife's ADOS Specialist
One of the dedicated professionals at BestLife Counseling Services is Danielle Smith, LCSW, who specializes in ADOS assessments and autism-focused therapy. With over 12 years of experience in mental health, Danielle has worked in a variety of settings, including:
Crisis intervention for youth and young adults
Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) for children on the Autism Spectrum
Individual and family therapy for neurodiverse clients
Danielle holds a Master’s Degree from Rutgers University and has extensive training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) techniques. She is also trained in Brainspotting (Phases 1 & 2), a therapy that helps individuals process and heal from trauma.
When she’s not in the therapy space, Danielle enjoys spending time outdoors and keeping up with her 1.5-year-old son, Beau—an adventure of its own!
Connect with Danielle, by requesting an appointment.
How Families Can Support Neurodiverse Individuals
Whether a diagnosis is new or your family has been navigating Autism Spectrum Disorder for years, ongoing support, education, and therapy are essential for both the individual and their loved ones. Here are ways to foster a positive, inclusive environment:
Educate Yourself & Others – Learn about neurodiversity, sensory sensitivities, and communication differences to create a more supportive world for individuals with ASD.
Encourage Strengths & Interests – Many individuals on the spectrum have specialized skills or deep interests in specific subjects—nurturing these passions helps with engagement and confidence.
Create Predictable Routines – Structure and clear expectations can help reduce anxiety and create a sense of security.
Use Clear & Direct Communication – Avoid vague or overly complex instructions—visual schedules, direct language, and consistency can make interactions more accessible.
Seek Therapy & Family Support Services – Therapy isn’t just beneficial for the individual—parents, siblings, and caregivers also need support to navigate the challenges and rewards of raising a neurodiverse child.
How BestLife Supports Neurodiverse Individuals & Families
At BestLife Counseling Services, we provide a comprehensive range of services to support individuals with ASD and their families, including:
ADOS Diagnostic Assessments – Offering early and accurate evaluations to help families access the right resources and educational support.
Family & Individual Therapy – Helping individuals and their loved ones develop communication strategies, emotional regulation skills, and coping techniques tailored to neurodiverse needs.
CBT & DBT for Anxiety & Emotional Support – Many neurodiverse individuals experience heightened anxiety—our evidence-based therapies help clients build resilience and confidence.
With in-person therapy available in Rio Grande, NJ, and telehealth services across Cape May and Atlantic Counties, BestLife makes mental health support accessible and flexible for families navigating neurodiversity.
World Autism Month is an opportunity to embrace, support, and advocate for neurodiverse individuals in our communities. If you’re seeking an ADOS evaluation, therapy for your child, or family counseling, BestLife is here to help.
Contact us today to schedule an appointment and take the next step toward understanding, support, and growth.
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